Honouring My Departed Loved One
Just keep asking, just keep calling, our loved ones are so present and so close, attending to our every request.
From the place they now stand they can much more easily support us, our only job is to ASK.
Today marks 4 years since my partner Francesco died and I can honestly say that not only was I blown wide open with the feeling of LOVE through his sudden passing but that very love has continued to grow between us.
Who knew that feeling was available at such a devasting time?
Our connection continues to be strong and it deepens as I call upon Francesco for help with just about everything.
In his physical life I used to say:
"My babe fixes everything...."
Well it turns out he's just as good, and maybe better, at fixing things in his non-physical form.
Francesco has shown me over and over again that leaving the physical plane does not mean he's gone!
He has surprised and delighted me, Celestino (our pup) and many of my clients who call upon him, with miracle after miracle.
And now, 4 years on, I can even begin to see the perfection of his passing.
With freedom as Francesco's highest value in life, what could be more free than to return to the deepest freedom that death allows?
It's funny to me now that in this world we use death as a punishment on humans when no greater love and well-being can be experienced like that we get in death!
That feeling of LOVE taught me that in my partner's death.
Whilst my heart still aches missing the love of my life, I see that there's no need for sorrow, no need for pain.
When I am in a good feeling, I am far closer to Francesco than when I am feeling grief and sorrow.
They are right beside us, our only job is to stay open, stay in expectation of experiencing that eternal connection, that love that never dies. ♥️
As a little update, 4 years on I am still living in Italy in the town that Fran and I loved so much, Ostuni, now experiencing a new life and even a new relationship with an Italian man who takes care of us in the most incredible way.
My work has evolved to include much more of a focus on the miraculous and helping my clients see it's not all on them to meet their goals and fulfil their dreams!
There's an easier way as they experience Divine Mind and even a Spiritual Team available to support at all times.
A book is currently in the works too and my hope is that it will support many in having a gentler experience of loss and a far more graceful experience of life.
To my love, Francesco, Aug 4 1976 - Dec 5 2020